However, everyone has been guilty of talking bad of another facility or controller...
This is one idea I'm concerned about. How has this become the norm? What constructiveness comes out of this activity? VATSIM is a learning environment to some (large) extent, so I don't have the expectation that every controller is going to be retired-FAA quality when I fly, or even observe. That being said, if someone knows of a controller doing something blatantly (or even slightly) wrong by the book or otherwise, what is stopping a more well-versed controller from improving the other's knowledge/skillset? In my opinion, we should be using those moments of receiving poor or less-than-perfect quality ATC service as a pilot on the network to teach, if the controller is open to it. All in the name of improvement, you know? Nobody is forced to do this, of course, but when a pilot who is also a well-versed controller on VATSIM talks behind another controller's (or pilot's) back with their friends, that's when the real "holier than thou" activity rears its ugly head.
I agree with you about Teamspeak activity being a place where groups can do whatever they want, that's a given. I'm calling for us to do a little better. There are points when I'm frustrated by ATC service on VATSIM (and yes, the occasional pilot as well) but I've realized the opportunities these create to teach. It isn't our responsibility to, as I hinted to before in this reply, but if you have the time, why not? A good deed goes a long way for the network. I don't personally believe in karma, but I do believe in making a difference, no matter how small. Not sure how somebody could disagree with this idea, but people have tried tirelessly to prove me wrong on here before.
I guess what this specific reply is trying to address is the idea that we can all do better to improve the network with a little effort, if not just restraint. Nobody likes a snob, especially in a learning environment. We should have fun here how we see fit of course, but always consider the implications of our actions and words.
Cheers
ZY