I agree, I love comming to VATSIM to relax after a hard day and enjoy myself. I love that we aim to be "As real as it gets" but we also have to remember the above. Sometimes we can train controllers in the basics of the position and then experience and perfection will come after years of doing it. Even when I became a Center rated controller, I didn't know everything and my skill improve every single day that I control. I feel that we need to find a balance between real and fun..if we make it so hard it won't be fun to the majority and they will stop doing their training and find another hobby. My 0.02 anyways.
I've said that all along, that I come here after to work, to unwind, have a little fun, either control or fly. I appreciate the "realism" aspect of this hobby, but I DON'T have to keep telling myself that this is a HOBBY, I know that. The realism part I see is bringing up a chart, flying the SID/STAR, and hopefully it's current, I subscribe to Navigraph, so I have the latest AIRAC all the time, and that's about as real as I'm concerned with as far as flying, that and the addon aircraft and scenery and such. But I've said before, I think some, feel this is a stepping stone, or training platform for people to come to on their way to becoming r/w ATC or pilots. Where I see this as educational, and maybe even an advantage over someone who has never done any of this before, I don't see it as a training platform. I think someone else said this also, that we as controllers need to remember, that without pilots, we have no job. I've always told my students, treat the pilots like you would want to be treated, remembering, everyone has a starting point, and from the beginning it's about learning to get better.
Right on Tommy!