Folks, before this devolves any further.... We are on the same team, working toward the same goal -- have fun enjoying a hobby that helps others have fun enjoying our hobby.
I think we can all agree that, as a simulation, we are attempting to simulate the real world as much as practical, given boundaries and limitations of our network, traffic, volunteer nature, etc. I think we can all agree that emulating a reasonable amount of realism, while giving reasonable flexibility and allowances for the various VATSIMisms, is a good and smart thing to do. Yes, it's gray. Yes, it's squishy. Yes, it's a matter of interpretation, and your mileage may vary based on the leadership/culture in place at each ARTCC. But the key is to attempt to emulate the real world, within reason, and yet keep it fun and inviting for people to want to participate. It's like walking on a razor blade, and the line is blurry.
That said, let's do the best we can to work TOGETHER to be reasonable, respectful and have fun.