I have cited charts as well. I'm also citing local knowledge in a further example that compass points aren't as easy as you make them out to be.
A common sentiment, yes, that the VATUSA and VATSIM staff say there is absolutely no reason to not use contact me. That reasoning also further disintegrates the second there is a split... whether you use a cryptic number or a compass rose points in the callsign. Most of the advocates of CoC B3 have been talking, from what I've seen, when they're the only controller on. If they're the only controller on then it doesn't matter if it's HOU_83_CTR, HOU_N_CTR, or just HOU_CTR.
There is no disconnect, I still fly quite regularly and am an avid chart user. I often fly into areas I've never flown before both inside and outside the US. I fly into areas around Europe where they often have unrealistic sectors that pop on (Adriac Center, EuroControl, etc) that are uncharted completely (outside of EURO_M_CTR which does exist rw), FIRs that don't cover the entire FIR.... I also remember my early days, when I was still figuring it all out, but I also know how to apply it. Believe it or not, you're discounting the knowledge of the pilots significantly.
A pilot departing DFW for IAH, and there is ZHU W and ZHU E, who do they call? Does it really make any difference if it is ZHU W and E vs ZHU 83 and 78? Nope. It doesn't. A pilot with zero knowledge of the sectors in Houston will be as confused either way. That's the point I'm trying to make. It has nothing to do with "management being disconnected", but more of, we all should make sure that we are helping pilots and providing the service we volunteered to do.